The Season of Harvest

How to Measure the Fruits of Your Therapy Work

Written by Emma Nagle, LCSW | October 8, 2025

Autumn is a season of gathering. A time when months of unseen labor finally bear fruit. In therapy, growth often works the same way. The daily effort of showing up, reflecting, and practicing new skills can feel subtle, even invisible. But just like orchards or vineyards, there comes a moment when the progress you’ve been nurturing quietly ripens.

The fruits of your labor may not be as straight forward as the grid of an orchard, but there are ways to determine progress. What you have harvested from months and years of self-reflection and healing in therapy may look much more subtle or personal and difficult to discern.

It’s normal to want to understand if your time, energy and money are producing something of value. What follows are some subtle signs of growth and change that might help you evaluate your own work from therapy sessions. 

How to Notice Your Inner Harvest

Shifts in reactions and regulation

You may find yourself pausing before reacting, or handling stress with more calm than you would have in the past.

Changes in self-talk

There is more awareness of the inner critic and the voice softens; you catch yourself offering more compassion or understanding toward yourself.

Different choices

Opting out of old patterns (like avoiding conflict or overworking) and experimenting with new, healthier behaviors like prioritizing yourself.

Energy for reflection

Feeling less drained by your emotions, and instead curious about them or able to sit with them more comfortably.

Relationships feel lighter

Boundaries become a little easier to set, or you notice you’re less pulled into others’ moods and look for less validation from others.

Resilience in setbacks

Difficult days still come, but recovery feels quicker; you’re not staying “stuck” as long.

Moments of gratitude

You may start to appreciate the smaller moments of joy that once would’ve been overlooked.

Willingness to dig deeper

Being open to exploring more difficult or sensitive topics demonstrates trust in the therapeutic relationship and therapy process.

“How can someone trust the harvest,

unless they see it sown?”

— Mary Renault

WITH MINDFUL ATTENTION

the subtle shifts within

become easier to recognize & trust.

With the change of season, it is a good reminder to pause and reflect on what is still growing, and what is ripe for the picking and ready for acknowledgment.

Therapy is rarely a linear process. Much like the seasonal harvest, growth can be unpredictable and uneven. It’s important to note that progress does not always look or feel like happiness. Sometimes it means being able to sit with discomfort instead of running from it, to notice old patterns as they arise, or to recover more quickly after setbacks. Gaining a greater capacity for honesty with oneself or courage to face previously avoided issues may not always feel triumphant in the moment, but all these types of changes are the groundwork of deeper, more sustainable transformation.

With mindful attention, and noticing the signs above as a guide, the subtle shifts within yourself become easier to recognize and trust. So ask yourself: Do any of these signs of progress resonate for you? What do you notice has started to change from within? What would you add to this list?

While this article offers you guidance on your inner work, you don’t have to make sense of your growth on your own. Talking it through with your therapist can help you see the value of the fruit you’ve been cultivating all along.